John is an optimistic person, he is a gregarious guy, one can never hear negative from his side........
Berry is always dull, looks perplexed, somewhat resistive and reserved, has a habit of saying No always.......
The words we use have enormous power in them. Words connect us with others and with God. Chanting mantras gives immense pleasure and relief, one can see that just by chanting the holy name of God you become stress free, becomes more determined and energetic. Words can bring the divinity within you.
Using negative words makes a person a great source of negative power, such people either become very dull or very aggressive. They live on the extreme sides possessed with negativity. For them living is losing and it becomes very difficult for them to realize what they are losing.
It's the power of words which decides about our relationship with others. A person with always no on his mouth finds difficult to carry any relation, whether on the professional side or on the personal side. They usually have limited friends and find it difficult to communicate with others. For them zeal, passion, enthusiasm, courage, ability, talent has no meaning because for all that one require a positivity in his mind and for that thought process must be streamlined.
Just by shifting your attitude from saying NO to YES can bring a tremendous change in one's life. Think before saying no; give everything a chance, one yes makes out half the work. Here laws of physics fail. A person with positivity attracts positive and negative both and an extremely positive person radiates his positivity to everyone, so just by coming in contact with positive people can make you positive.
Try meditation and chant mantras, it brings the cosmic energy within you which makes you positive and radiant. Success itself steps into the bowl of positivity.