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Murshida Carol Weyland Conner's recent visit to India was, like always, rejuvenating. Head of Sufism Reoriented, a 50-year-old organization based in the USA that imparts Sufi education, Conner feels India is the "motherland of the earth".

Murshida (the title given to a female Sufi leader) Conner does not look like a spiritual guru - she does not wear robes, nor any holy beads around her neck or arms. In fact, she looks more like a corporate head than a spiritual leader. She is happily married and her husband always accompanies her to India.

Her 500-strong Sufi group in Walnut Creek, California, follows the teachings of Meher Baba, who lived (in India) between 1894 and 1969. Conner was in India (her third visit) to visit the Baba's grave in Meherabad, Ahmednagar, a special place for Sufi followers in the western Indian state of Maharashtra.

Conner is highly educated and a clinical psychologist by profession.  Describing her spiritual journey which started in childhood, Conner says, "When I was a child, I sensed the light and joy that emanates from the core of life. And I sensed that all life is sacred. It would be appropriate to think of all spiritual leaders like Rama, Krishna, Gautam Buddha, Jesus Christ and Mohammed as Sufis."

Born in 1942, Conner grew up in central California's San Joaquin Valley. She studied English literature at Berkeley (University of California), French literature at the Sorbonne in Paris, and medieval studies at the Johns Hopkins Institute in Baltimore, before receiving her PhD in clinical  psychology from Catholic University, Washington DC, in 1976. After teaching for several years in the George Washington University School of Medicine, she went into private practice as a therapist, practicing for 25 years in Walnut Creek, California. Here she met Dr James MacKie, a follower of  Sufism. The two went on a pilgrimage to spiritual centers in India and Europe.

As the spiritual head, what goals has the Murshida set for herself? She says, "Since the nature of our organization is to foster internal processes of growth centering on love for Divinity and Creation, we do not seek to proselytize or 'win over' new members. That can't be done. However, I do try to keep the door wide open for those who are seeking us, so that they may be nurtured by our school to the extent they find beneficial."

Does being a woman work to her advantage? "Of course. Many students are pleased to welcome a woman as a leader as she is associated with nurturing, charm, courtesy, protectiveness and other qualities that reassure others and put them at ease."

How much of Conner's life changed after she became a Murshida? "I have been a Sufi for 25 years and centered my life on love for God and service to His world. My life has not changed a great deal. The specific tasks that come to me now are different but the basic outlook on life is unchanged. I believe that my work builds upon the foundations laid by my predecessors."

Back home in the US, every week, the members (which include lawyers, technicians, doctors) collect for Sufi classes. Meditation is followed by sharing experiences and expressing one's feelings towards the divine force through paintings, sculpture, theatre and music.

Sufism Reoriented encourages members to be active contributors within their communities. A student is expected to master the psychological, sociological and economic forces of his or her environment before seeking to join a spiritual school. Sufis are encouraged to meet the personal responsibilities of life. Spiritualism and worldly matters are interconnected for members of Sufism Reoriented.

For Murshida Conner, this is the true path to happiness and enlightenment.

31-Mar-2003
More by :  Nivedita Sharma
 
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Article Comment I was a mureed of Murshida Ivy Duce many years ago in San Francisco, California in 1972. I have done some practices and still read meher Baba discourses at times, It has always been a silent foundation for me now that I am 65 years old. If there are others like me in the community and remember Mrs. Duce, Lud Dimphel and Anise and Selma Hassen it would be nice to connect. I am in the Los Angeles area.

Avatar Meher Baba qui jai.

Thanks

denise Parry
01/25/2016
Article Comment I'm trying to locate a Sufi follower, Richard Beatman, to notify him of the death of a friend. Please contact Diana at 925-362-1445.
Casal
01/08/2014
Article Comment I believe I met Murshida Carol Conner on the Iron Horse Trail today, in Walnut Creek. We discussed the shortage of rain and the point that her husband and myself are retired lawyers. Apparently, her maiden name Weyland sounds just like my surname except for the initial consonant. The four requisites of membership in Sufi Reoriented include a commitment to having a surplus of time and energy for service. John Milton thought that they also serve who stand and wait, and that is the path I am on. I agree with abstinence from illicit and hallucinogenic substances, sex outside marriage, and the other requisites for service—I also commend abstinence from sex after one’s interests in procreation have been satisfied. Rudolph Steiner, Meister Eckhart, Proclus, the Theology of Plato, and the Tibetan Book of the Dead are the primary guides for my spiritual views as I approach death (gently, with patience and humility—I hope).
Ozzie Maland
Walnut Creek
Ozzie Maland
01/02/2014
Article Comment I really amazed by the view and interview . I am a student of Sufism still it is amazing for me I would like to know more about this group.
mushtak
08/11/2013
Article Comment BY THE GRACE OF THE LORD I HAVE BECOME AN HUMBLE INSTRUMENT TO COMMUNICATE HIS MESSAGE OF LOVE,BLISS AND DIVINITY TO TRUE GOD LOVERS AS WELL AS TO THOSE WHO ARE DEEPLY INTERESTED IN SPIRITUALITY ..AS A PUBLIC SPEAKER I GIVE TALKS ON THE TOPICS LIKE,HOW TO ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF LIFE,HOW TO LOVE THE LORD AT OUR BEST,HOW WE CAN MAKE LIFE DIVINE/BLISSFUL,THE PATH OF
,SELF-REALIZATION/GOD-REALIZATION ETC.GREAT SUFI SAINTS RABIA AND J.RUMI ARE MY FAVORITE SAINTS..I HAVE WRITTEN A CHAPTER ABOUT IMMORTAL RABIA IN MY BOOK,;'YOU ARE IMMORTAL
CONGRATULATIONS TO DEAR MURSHIDA CONNER,REMINDING US OF RABIA FOR HER LOVE FOR THE LORD!
PROF.JAYANT V.JOSHI
12/05/2012
Article Comment Hello, I host and produce a radio program called, "Point of Interest" which airs on More Public Radio International. Our host station is in the City of Oakland, but we are a mostly internet-based radio station and have listeners throughout the nation.

I am interested in having someone from your organization come on my program to talk about the proposed building you hope to contruct in Walnut Creek and the differring opinions from the communtiy about your project.
On a broader issue I would like to talk about religious freedoms and how that freedom sometimes get trampled on.

I think it would be a great conversation and I hope you can join me!
Sincerely,
Angie
Angie Watson-Hajjem
02/23/2012
Article Comment A lovely photo of a lovely woman, and a good, sweet interview! I wish I were with her now - Christmas, 2011. Love from Melody.
Melody Dickinson
12/26/2011
 
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