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Parenting
How to Celebrate Holi with Kids
by Garima Gupta
Holi
is around the corner. The festival of free spirits. The festival of fun
and frolic, and of bountiful colors. But unfortunately, the festival of
colors has also turned into a festival of chemicals. The free
spiritedness of Holi also gives rise to total lack of rules on the
streets. It is only natural that parents of little angels are as
apprehensive as they are excited about Holi. How do they see Holi, and
more importantly, how should the kids celebrate Holi?
There is no doubt that kids should be introduced to the Indian culture
and festivals. It brings in them a sense of belongingness, and a larger
understanding of the society they are a part of. So I would suggest the
ideal way to celebrate Holi, or any other festival for that matter is a
story. Yes, the mythological story of Hiranyakashipu, Holika, Lord
Narsimha and the little Prahlad. I have included a kid-appropriate
version of this story at the end of this article.
To start with, do include the kids in any preparation you do for holi,
like making special sweets, gujia etc. Let the festivities start for
them too. The next part is Holika-dahan, when the Holika is burnt and
little Prahlad is saved. If a community celebration of this happens in
your locality, make sure you take your child to witness it. Otherwise a
scaled down version of the same can be hosted at home itself. It would
be like having the story enacted, almost like a puppet show. Start with
finding a safe place for the fire. A paper-Holika will burn earnestly,
whereas a doll disguised as Prahlad can be saved by the child himself.
Just attach a string to the Prahlad and ask your child to pull Prahlad
to safety as soon as the fire is lighted. In addition to reinforcing the
holi story, and imbibing some religious values in the child, this can
also serve as a reminder that fire is a dangerous thing and should not
be fooled around with. (They did see the Holika burn to ashes, didn’t
they?)
Finally,
the day of colorful, playful holi comes. You and the kids are ready with
their pichkari to soak and color everyone in range. If you can, refrain
from using colors and gulals till your kids are a little older. The
colors and gulal used in holi are essentially chemicals and can have
serious side effects . For example, red is mercury sulphite, green is
copper sulphate, purple is made from chromium and bromide compounds and
black has lead oxide. Their usage can lead to skin irritation,
allergies, hair loss, edema and erythema and even blindness. You can
choose to play with natural colors or with plain water. There are a lot
of ways to create natural colors – you can use turmeric, beetroot and
mehandi (henna) for common colors. You can be creative and make even
more colors from household stuff. Ensure that you speak to the parents
of his potential playmates so that they also play holi without these
chemicals. However, it is always better to prepare your children in case
others are playing with these colors. A generous helping of cold cream
on the body, and oil on the hair and scalp should help. Clearly instruct
your child to close her eyes if someone applies gulal on her head or
face, or throws colored water towards her.
With these precautions, you can be sure your child is going to have a
fun-filled holi with memories to last a lifetime.
The Holi story for kids
Once upon a time there was a evil demon-king called Hiranyakashipu who
was very proud and arrogant. He considered himself the most powerful one
in the world, and ordered everyone to worship him, instead of Lord
Vishnu. However, his own son, Prahlad was a very good boy, and a devotee
of Lord Vishnu. This made king Hiranyakashipu very angry, and he asked
his sister, Holika to get rid of Prahlad. Now, Holika also had a secret
power. She was immune to fire, so that fire could never burn her. So,
she took Prahlad with her, and sat in a huge bonfire. But Holika forgot
that fire is a very dangerous thing, and everybody should be very
careful near the fire. So Holika burned, and died. However, little
Prahlad was continuously praying to the god, and so was saved because of
his devotion to Lord Vishnu. Later, Lord Vishnu took Narsimha avatar and
killed the evil king too. So, every year, we burn a bonfire on Holi, to
remember that one should always be good, believe in god, and should
always be careful of fire.
March 12, 2006
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