Individuality   
Friendship - 2
We should have two friends,
One to talk to and one to talk about!

'Friendship', a single, simple word of ten alphabets is more than what you can imagine. These ten alphabets are joined to each other by immense bond of trust and love.

Friendship means not only ship of friends but it means sharing, sharing joy and sharing sorrow.

Two friends woven together by threads of friendship never feel embarrassed to share their drawbacks! They count themselves and their friend as one. Though miles apart, two friends still hold each other's hands, they can find joy also when the sky is gloomy.

Since the beginning, I have been stressing on friendship between 2 friends, because I feel, personally, that friendship can be of true nature between 2 friends. 

Friendship between more than two friends cannot be personal. Such people are not friends but are together called as friendly group. In such groups also, you often find two friends closely related. So! Friendship can also exist between 2 people of friendly group. But! Finally it's only between 2 friends.

One to one relating can never exist between friendly groups because; 1+1 is always 2 and not 3 or 4.

There is a quoting, which is as follows :

"We should have two friends, one to talk to and one to talk about!" 

In such friendships also, often 1 person (friend) is closer than the other.
This I say out of experience.

Thus,
Friendship is 1+1 relationship, not to be shared with more than one friend. 

Two is company, three is crowd.

Have many acquaintances, but only one close friend.

Friendship between three ( more than two ) friends can never be well balanced.

( I know this chapter will give rise to many doubts and many more disagreements. Feel free to contact me and I will try my level best to explain to you what I, actually want to convey.)

� Aarti Honrao
July 6, 2000

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