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Individuality
Friendship
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Baseline of friendship
is mutual understanding
 In earlier chapter I have continuously stressed on friendship between
two friends. I have also mentioned that friendship cannot exist between more than two friends. I would like to clarify my statement for those people who do not agree to my statement.
My intention to write on this topic is not only to express my views but also make others realize the value of friendship, so that this earth becomes a better place to live.
Friendship, what I am talking about, here, is not friendship, which exists between any two individuals who have same choices. Two people liking vada sambaar cannot be called friends, but they think in this manner.
"I like vada-sambaar, you like it too. I like watching movies, you like it too. You like my company I like yours. We have so much in common! We are friends."
This is the general way in which people make friends these days. The meaning of 10 alphabetical words is deteriorating.
The above example is not an example of friendship; it is actually joining hands with a person whose ideas and favorites match with yours.
Friendship consists of accepting a person wholly in your life in spite of any differences that you may have. Your friend need not like what you like and vice versa.
If this is the baseline (vada-sambaar) of friendship then you may have thousands of friends! Go to the south and you will find one for every step you walk.
But! The baseline of friendship is mutual understanding. You ought to understand as to what your friend's viewpoint is before asking him/her. You must learn to listen to his/her views even if they do not match yours.
This is the beginning of a better decision. You may realize it soon that because of difference in thought or rather opinion, about a particular topic, with your friend, you reach a perfect conclusion, because of friendly discussion with your friend.
You know that there is no square root solution to 26 or 23.
But add them together.
26 + 23 = 49
49 have a square root!
Your views are 26
Your friend's views are 23 ( or vice-versa )
And 49 is your joint view.
And 7 is the solution to your problem.
Thus, "Baseline of friendship is mutual understanding."
–
Aarti Honrao
July 13, 2000
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