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International Women's Day - March 8, 2004
Getting Behind Abuse     

The links between animal and human abuse are not surprising to anyone who understands the power and control dynamics of violence against women and children.

Those (usually men) who abuse others less powerful than themselves (usually women and children) do so to gain control, and to make themselves feel more powerful. The abuse of animals too, reflects the desire to gain control - a pet is one more member of the "family" to can be controlled, hurt, made subservient, or treated as "property." Harming or threatening to harm a beloved pet is also a powerful way to 'punish' or control a spouse or child.

Research indicates that persons with a history of prosecuted animal abuse are three to five times more likely to have been arrested for violent offences against humans, drug offences, and property crimes. Several offenders in recent school shootings in the US had previously abused animals. Research by US psychologist Randall Lockwood indicates that up to half of known serial killers and mass murderers were cruel to animals as children, including Marc Lepine who killed 14 women in Montreal in 1989.

Research also indicates that those who have been abused as children are more likely (than those who have not been abused), to mistreat animals. In a recently completed research study by US researchers Ascione and Friedrich*, 26 per cent of children who were physically abused were cruel to animals, and 13 per cent of sexually abused children were cruel to animals. The study also showed that 34 per cent of children who were both physically and sexually abused were cruel, compared to 4.5 per cent of children who had not been abused.

Children's persistent cruelty to animals is not just a 'normal' part of childhood or something that a child will 'grow out of'. In fact, persistent cruelty to animals is often an indicator of something seriously wrong; it is behavior that must be questioned. At times, it could be a cry for help from a child who has suffered abuse, and who is turning on the only family member more vulnerable than him or her. It is, at the very least, an opportunity to teach a child about empathy and the need to be kind to all living creatures.

Animal abuse is also linked with violence against women in intimate relationships. Jacobson and Gottman, in their 1998 book 'When men batter women: New insights into ending abusive relationships', point out that

"...the most violent batterers in our sample also tended to behave sadistically toward pets..."

While only a few studies have looked specifically at this connection, research undertaken in 2000 by Ascione and colleagues found that 72 per cent of a sample of women who had been battered and who used a crisis shelter reported that their abusive partners had harmed, killed or threatened to harm their pets. This compared to 14.5 per cent of the group of women who had not experienced domestic violence. While 62 per cent of the abused women with children said that their children had witnessed the abuse of their pets, only 3 per cent of the non-abused women said that their children had witnessed such animal abuse.

In this study, more than half of the children (of the abused mothers) had tried to intervene to protect their pets. This raises concerns not only about the negative effects of children witnessing the violence towards both their mothers and their pets, but about the dangers to children who try to keep their pets safe from harm.

Penny Bain, Executive Director of the British Columbia (BC) Institute Against Family Violence says, "Family violence does not occur in a vacuum. It is strongly interconnected with a network of factors, ranging from causal to correlative to consequential. It flourishes when people in positions to intervene don't do so, more often than not because they don't recognize the signs or simply don't know how to respond."

It is to address these issues - the linkages between family violence and animal abuse, recognizing the signs, and knowing how to respond - that a public and professional education program has been launched in British
Columbia.

A collaborative partnership between several organizations including the BC Institute Against Family Violence, the BC Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals and the Federal Department of Justice, has developed a series of pamphlets. These focus on the linkages between animal and human abuse: One kind for the victim-serving community, another for the animal welfare community and a third kind for the general public.

In addition, a multi-disciplinary training course has been developed by the Justice Institute of BC to help professionals on both the animal and human side to learn to recognize the signs of abuse and to know how to respond effectively. As in all criminal and anti-social activity, early intervention and prevention are the most effective ways of dealing with the problem.

The pamphlets and course material educate animal welfare workers to be on the lookout for signs of abuse of women and children in homes where animal abuse is identified. And also to know what questions to ask and how to respond if their suspicions are supported. Similarly, child protection workers, victim service workers, and women's shelter workers need to ask women about the abuser's behavior towards any pets in the home and try to ensure safety for those pets by finding safe shelter for the animals and/or alerting animal welfare workers.

Shelter workers and victim service workers say that it is not uncommon for women to refuse to stay in a particular home because of concern for their pets. For this reason, and also because of the healing power of pets, some women's shelters are now accommodating pets as well as women and children. Others who are unable to do so, are developing relationships with their local animal welfare organization to provide shelter for the animals or find temporary homes until a particular woman is in a position to take them back.

That the relationship between animals and humans can be a powerful source of comfort and healing is well known. The victim-serving community's decision to include pets in their safety plans for women and their children, is a crucial element that will benefit them as well as protect the animals.   

– Linda Light
March 8, 2004 

International Women's Day - March 8, 2004
 
Articles
Females: Superior by Choice, Design and Default by Gaurang Bhatt, MD
Getting Behind Abuse by Linda Light
It's All About Women by Elayne Clift 
New Enemy Threatens Baby Girls by Manipadma Jena
No Turning Back by Kalyani Menon-Sen  
Single Moms by Choice by V. Radhika
Towards Freedom From Fear by Malvika Kaul
Poetry
Beacon of Hope by Neria Harish Hebbar, MD
Mothers Never Die by Michael Levy
Woman by Pavalamani Pragasam
Women Empowerment: Today's Vision for Tomorrow's Mission by Hillol Ray

International Women's Day - March 2001
Ah! Women by Roberta Lee Wilcox  
Ahilya - A poem by Manisha Bansal
And the International Women's Day was Born by Meera Chowdhry  
Being A Woman by Manisha Kulshreshtha
How to be a Woman, though a Human by Sangeeta Goel
March 8th - International Women's Day by Pavalamani Pragasam
Most Beautiful Things about Women by Smitha V
Mother Teresa: Woman of the Century by Bijal Dwivedi
Musings of a Lady - A poem by Maria Reed-Shore
Nari 2001 by Lavanya Shah
Nevertheless - A poem by Manisha Bansal
Thoughts on Women's Day by Gargi Chaudhuri 
What you can Never Understand about Women by Smitha V
Women: Symbols of Sacrifice or Sacrificial Lambs? by Meenakshi Madhur

By arrangement with Womens Feature Service

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