http://www.boloji.com Boloji is the world's biggest Articles Database. en-us Sat, 09 May 2026 12:49:46 -0500 Sat, 09 May 2026 12:49:46 -0500 http://www.boloji.com/feed/individuality-rss.xml Boloji rk@boloji.net (Boloji) ideas@ekant.com (Ekant Solutions)https://www.boloji.com/articles/55408/from-no-idea-to-europeThe instinct to act rather than hesitate became her greatest strength. She walked into the interview with confidence and walked out with a job, not because she had the right answers, but because she had the right attitude.Sat, 09 May 2026 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/55408/from-no-idea-to-europehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/55160/become-so-powerful-that-the-world-listens-when-you-speakThis article explains that true success and influence do not come from speaking loudly or frequently, but from mastering oneself first. It emphasizes listening deeply, speaking less but with clarity and purpose, controlling emotions, choosing the right time and audience, and focusing communication on others benefit rather than personal ego. The article also highlights that consistent action, reliability, and value creation speak louder than words. By developing emotional intelligence, clarity of thought, purposeful speech, and disciplined action, a person naturally gains respect, trust, and influence ” and therefore becomes someone whom others willingly listen to.Sat, 27 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/55160/become-so-powerful-that-the-world-listens-when-you-speakhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/54503/the-courage-to-be-dislikedIn a world where social validation often dictates our actions, the concept of embracing the courage to be disliked can seem revolutionary. This idea, profoundly explored in the Japanese bestseller 'The Courage to Be Disliked' by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga, is rooted in the psychological theories of Alfred Adler. The book, structured as a dialogue between a philosopher and a young man, delves into the essence of living a fulfilling life by prioritizing personal freedom over societal approval.Fri, 27 Sep 2024 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/54503/the-courage-to-be-dislikedhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/54493/the-art-of-saying-noIn a world that often equates busyness with success, the ability to say “no” has become an essential skill. The art of saying no is not just about refusing requests; it’s about setting boundaries, prioritizing personal well-being, and maintaining control over one’s life. Let’s explores the importance of saying no, the challenges associated with it, and practical strategies to master this crucial skill.Sat, 21 Sep 2024 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/54493/the-art-of-saying-nohttps://www.boloji.com/articles/54444/the-power-of-inversion-thinkingWhat if, instead of asking how to succeed, you asked how to fail and then avoided those pitfalls? This is the essence of inversion thinking—a strategy that has been instrumental in the success of titans like Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, and Charlie Munger. But how exactly does this reverse-engineered approach work, and why has it been so effective?Sat, 24 Aug 2024 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/54444/the-power-of-inversion-thinkinghttps://www.boloji.com/articles/54328/baffling-truthWe see what we wish to see! The divine mystery “ as the individuals nature changes, the attitude of the world changes too.Mon, 27 May 2024 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/54328/baffling-truthhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/54077/silencing-societys-static-a-journey-to-soulful-satisfactionWhat makes a good life? Is it the number of likes on your Instagram post, the size of your paycheck, or the designer label on your shoes? Or perhaps, is it the warmth of your laughter, the depth of your passions, the strength of your character, and the quiet contentment of your soul?Sat, 18 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/54077/silencing-societys-static-a-journey-to-soulful-satisfactionhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/54071/sheepish-endeavors-when-humans-turn-herdHave you ever found yourself in a crowd, simply following the person in front of you, trusting they know where they're going? What if I told you that, on a grander scale, most of us are just a fleece away from being – well, sheep?Sat, 18 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/54071/sheepish-endeavors-when-humans-turn-herdhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/54041/the-art-of-being-presentHave you ever found yourself lost in a spiral of past regrets or future anxieties while missing out on the vibrant palette of the present moment? Has an autopilot mode taken over your life, making your decisions more of a reaction than a well-contemplated response? If yes, then the practice of mindfulness may be your golden key to unlocking a more conscious and deliberative approach to decision-making.Sat, 21 Oct 2023 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/54041/the-art-of-being-presenthttps://www.boloji.com/articles/54031/a-benign-non-violent-death-wish-for-the-elderlyA few days back I spoke over the mobile to an elderly friend and when the call ended, he seemed to have transferred to me all the burden of the world he was carrying. He said he was in hospital and when I asked him what the problem was, he laughed but despondently said: ‘The problem, Ravi, is I am not dying.’Sat, 14 Oct 2023 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/54031/a-benign-non-violent-death-wish-for-the-elderlyhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/53954/stoic-serenityHow often do you find yourself caught in the tempest of life's turbulent seas, clutching at straws for some semblance of control, only to feel disoriented, anxious, or even helpless? What if there was a way to find an oasis of calm in this chaotic cosmos, a way to navigate life with grace and equanimity, irrespective of the circumstances? Welcome to Stoicism, an ancient philosophy teeming with timeless wisdom, a beacon to guide us through life's uncharted terrains.Sat, 09 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/53954/stoic-serenityhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/53950/the-new-mindsetThere is a force in the universe that is active in us, and is a great resource in our quest for a animated life and a conscious world. this force exists and is with us — indeed, it is in us — making use of it hinges on a crucial factor: the nature of your mindset.Sun, 03 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/53950/the-new-mindsethttps://www.boloji.com/articles/53876/pygmalions-paintbrush-the-power-of-expectationsWhat if I told you that your perception of someone else could dictate their future? Could our beliefs truly possess the power to shape another’s potential? And how would you feel if you discovered that you have been both the sculptor and the statue in your life’s narrative?Sat, 29 Jul 2023 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/53876/pygmalions-paintbrush-the-power-of-expectationshttps://www.boloji.com/articles/53859/the-dunning-kruger-effectHave you ever found yourself supremely confident about a task, only to realize later that your confidence was misplaced? Or perhaps you've encountered someone boldly professing knowledge they clearly lacked? What if these incidents are not isolated but part of a broader psychological phenomenon known as the Dunning-Kruger Effect?Sat, 22 Jul 2023 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/53859/the-dunning-kruger-effecthttps://www.boloji.com/articles/53756/unveiling-the-illusionThis article explores Zhuang Zhou's theory of reality and simulation, highlighting its relevance in today's world. It delves into the illusory nature of reality, the importance of discerning simulations, and the alignment with the Dao. Additionally, it provides practical tips for living a happy life based on Zhuang Zhou's wisdom, such as self-awareness, simplicity, connection with nature, mindfulness, spontaneity, authentic connections, and self-care.Sat, 27 May 2023 17:04:14 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/53756/unveiling-the-illusionhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/53753/bridging-divisions-cultivating-compassionIn a world marked by conflicts and divisions, this article explores the transformative power of compassion and support in fostering unity and understanding. Drawing inspiration from Walt Whitman's poem "Animals," it highlights the interconnectedness of all beings and encourages readers to break free from the cycle of arguments and pinpointing. By implementing practical tips such as cultivating empathy, choosing understanding over judgment, and actively listening, individuals can contribute to building a more compassionate society. The article emphasizes the importance of seeking common ground, offering constructive feedback, and leading by example. Through these actions, readers can play an active role in bridging divisions, nurturing understanding, and promoting a culture of support. Ultimately, the article invites readers to embrace their capacity for empathy and compassion, fostering positive change in their interactions and communities.Sat, 27 May 2023 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/53753/bridging-divisions-cultivating-compassionhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/53633/our-mood-swingsThe truth is, honestly speaking none of us are angels. We try to be angels at times but most of the time, we remain passive, indifferent and self-centered. It is no accusation, but truth. For most of us, it is too difficult to even think beyond our realms of life; be it high level of affluence or lowest levels of penury. Both are honestly alien to every one of us even if we are directly very rich or very poor.Sun, 05 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/53633/our-mood-swingshttps://www.boloji.com/articles/53372/do-away-with-marital-twistersMarriage is a union of two people who are going to live together for long. Sooner or later they are sure to face some turbulent situation as it is natural that a little conflict surfaces in all relationships. Sure, but when anger is not moderated and assault cannot be nipped in the bud, a marriage can become troublesome for both the partners. Here are some suggestions which could work as fire extinguishers.Sat, 03 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/53372/do-away-with-marital-twistershttps://www.boloji.com/articles/53181/your-attitude-is-youYou’re only one attitude away from achieving your goals. An attitude with a capital A is the difference between success and failure. Your ability to succeed is determined by how and what you think. Happy events, accomplishments, adulations, and clapping lead the minds of successful individuals. The ideas are depressing, full of failures, beatings, and insults for those who wish to be failed to accomplish.Sat, 07 May 2022 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/53181/your-attitude-is-youhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/53145/discover-your-potentialWhen I visited this place and was just leisurely strolling around as an onlooker, these 13–14-foot giants weighing about 25,000 pounds were being taken to the washing and cleaning sheds for their daily ablutions. I was surprised and confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front legs. No heavy iron chains, nor any protective gear. It was obvious that the elephant could, at any time, grab the mahout in its trunk and throw him away, crashing away from the ropes it was tied to. I got chills.Sat, 16 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/53145/discover-your-potentialhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/52749/worst-thing-than-painThe worst thing than pain itself is when we try to fight against pain, when we try not to accept it, when we try to reject it and try to give false reasons created by mind or search for something or someone to blame in order to neutralize it, without letting it healed properly, without giving the period of time it needs really.Sat, 11 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/52749/worst-thing-than-painhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/52159/dr.-verghese-kuriens-i-too-had-a-dreamDr. Verghese Kurien, the father of the White Revolution became a legend in his lifetime for building a cooperative movement that transformed the lives of poor farmers while making India self-reliant in milk production. His autobiographical book I too had a Dream as told to Gauri Salvi shows one can really do things even in India beyond criticism if one is driven by purpose, integrity, and indefatigable industry. In a career that spanned close to six decades, Kurien not only changed the lives of millions of farmers and consumers but also established some of India’s best institutions and brands like the Institute of Rural Management at Anand. He is the doyen of the dairy cooperative movement. Tue, 24 Nov 2020 00:00:00 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/52159/dr.-verghese-kuriens-i-too-had-a-dreamhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/51874/are-you-smart-enoughYou cannot always be the smartest person in the room, but you can always be the hardest worker around!Read this to know if you are smart enough?Sun, 26 Jul 2020 03:41:44 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/51874/are-you-smart-enoughhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/51424/how-to-boost-your-self-esteemSelf-confidence is something we build daily. Some are born with it while others have to work to achieve it. These tips will help you raise your self-esteem.Thu, 23 Jan 2020 04:07:01 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/51424/how-to-boost-your-self-esteemhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/51057/take-permission-pleaseThe topic is ‘Seeking Permission’. So do I have your permission to say something? Sun, 01 Sep 2019 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/51057/take-permission-pleasehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/50765/make-time-your-ally-not-enemyTime is a scarce resource. It is irreplaceable and irreversible. Few things are more important to us than learning how to save time and how to spend it wisely. This principle applies to us all in most areas of our lives. Though it is generally thought that time management is especially true in the world of work, I would emphatically say that it is very important for students. For them the potential demands and pressures on our time greatly outweigh what is available. We have to choose our ends wisely and manage our time and abilities carefully to achieve them.Sat, 23 Mar 2019 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/50765/make-time-your-ally-not-enemyhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/50742/dont-manage-time-enjoy-itWhen my son Aniket was in class one I would go to his school to drop him every morning. I would enter his class and play a game of chutki with his classmates. While he would watch proudly from the sidelines his friends crowding me I would shake hands with each of them and snap my fingers around their thumb. This game of chutki was very popular and I would be mobbed every day like some kind of Indian idol or cricket star.Sun, 03 Mar 2019 00:00:00 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/50742/dont-manage-time-enjoy-ithttps://www.boloji.com/articles/50688/Sun, 27 Jan 2019 00:00:00 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/50688/https://www.boloji.com/articles/50612/knowing-how-to-talk-is-a-great-powerSat, 01 Dec 2018 00:00:00 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/50612/knowing-how-to-talk-is-a-great-powerhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/50516/think-for-yourselfSat, 13 Oct 2018 00:00:00 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/50516/think-for-yourselfhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/50239/body-languageNon-verbal communication (body language, paralinguistics or kinesics) has been a focus of attention for some time in areas such as the refinement of presentation skills, developing social skills, and even as a realistic alternative to the lie-detector test. Body language is the unspoken communication that goes on in every face-to-face encounter with another human being. It tells you their true feelings towards you and how well your words are being received.Sun, 08 Apr 2018 10:27:19 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/50239/body-languagehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/49558/optimism-an-admirable-virtueOptimism is a human tendency to expect the best possible outcome of any situation. The term is derived from the French optimisme, from New Latin optimum, i.e.,the greatest good or the best. It is the feeling of being hopeful about the future, or about the success of something. It provides the inner strength that helps one to face tough times, and the benefits that follow help the individual to keep fit and healthy to face life.Sun, 19 Feb 2017 13:09:41 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/49558/optimism-an-admirable-virtuehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/15916/career-planning-and-managementIt all about ones Career Planning and Management. How one can consciously progress in ones career and life by maintaining a fine balance.Thu, 15 May 2014 20:03:43 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/15916/career-planning-and-managementhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/15380/an-evening-on-marinaSelf respect is the unique asset humans possessed and flaunted whether one has anything that matters such us money, health, and what not. It matters most, to recognize our own dignity in this large and intimidating world. Not losing it ought to be our endeavor, till we breathed our last. It is the reason why the majority sees a friend in whosoever would be helping us have, keep and enlarge the same. There is no qualification to merit its ownership. Wed, 15 Jan 2014 21:43:58 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/15380/an-evening-on-marinahttps://www.boloji.com/articles/14233/Sun, 31 Mar 2013 10:37:49 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/14233/https://www.boloji.com/articles/14140/what-men-wantTue, 12 Mar 2013 07:55:35 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/14140/what-men-wanthttps://www.boloji.com/articles/14138/relationshipsA healthy mind lives in a healthy body and a healthy heart lives inside a healthy mind. In a lifetime all our happiness and sorrow depend upon how our relationships are with people around us. It is a lifelong desire for most people to have healthy relationships. I was once told by someone that if the basic pillars of life are firmed (which again refers to our relationships with our people), life can be lived to the fullest. Tue, 12 Mar 2013 07:54:25 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/14138/relationshipshttps://www.boloji.com/articles/14114/the-seeds-of-talentGenerally we speak about some artists as talented. What do we actually mean by talent and why we all are talented in some specific areas and why not in others.Sat, 09 Mar 2013 09:22:28 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/14114/the-seeds-of-talenthttps://www.boloji.com/articles/14082/as-easy-as-breathingMon, 04 Mar 2013 22:32:48 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/14082/as-easy-as-breathinghttps://www.boloji.com/articles/13705/success-failure-and-gloryThe first step of success is; recognizing the stress of mortal life. This very recognition is simultaneously; painful, igniting and motivating. It triggers the expedition of stress management. This is associated with greater stress or challenge to manage the stress which is universal! The ignorant ones or the callous ones may not suffer from this!Wed, 26 Dec 2012 22:15:25 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/13705/success-failure-and-gloryhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/13190/importance-of-negotiation-in-life-work-amp-businessMon, 15 Oct 2012 04:26:47 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/13190/importance-of-negotiation-in-life-work-amp-businesshttps://www.boloji.com/articles/12934/success-achieved-thro-hard-work-or-natural-abilityIn a general sense, Success is measured by the achievement of goals. The question is who is more successful, one who has the natural ability to succeed, or another who climbs up the ladder through toil.Fri, 21 Sep 2012 20:31:22 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/12934/success-achieved-thro-hard-work-or-natural-abilityhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/12904/resilienceFri, 21 Sep 2012 22:11:17 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/12904/resiliencehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/12038/a-human-behavioural-process-laboratoryAn insight into the human behaviour process laboratory. A conditional process by which the individual in a group gets an opportunity to reflect and find ways to change for effective behaviour. The note is an explanation of the internal process in such labs.Sat, 25 Jan 2014 09:22:45 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/12038/a-human-behavioural-process-laboratoryhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/11896/the-enemy-withinThere was a job to be done which my immediate boss and I took it upon ourselves to finish. From the concept to the planning and up to implementation we did it all and it was well-done. Although my contribution was more than his, my boss took the whole credit and it passed not only under his name but with a photograph as well. He did not give me any credit even in private. I was furious.Mon, 13 Feb 2012 20:28:28 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/11896/the-enemy-withinhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/11859/the-word-impossibleWhat is the definition of the word 'impossible'? Theoretically a dictionary says, 'something that is not possible, not easy or convenient, credible'. But in the other hand if we see it practically one thing should not be neglected that what seems impossible today turns out to be feasible and possible the next day. What is impossible to one is not to another. This is contrasting. Sun, 05 Feb 2012 10:35:01 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/11859/the-word-impossiblehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/11054/am-i-really-freeLiving life the beautiful way and identifying who you really areThu, 02 Jun 2011 07:33:50 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/11054/am-i-really-freehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/10330/eating-the-crow-hotLife is strange, many a time we end in sticky moments which shows us in a bad limelight where we never intend to end up . Sometimes it may be a little awkward moment like breaking things close to the heart of people close to our heart, sometimes it may be an ugly moment wherein we are forced to be with a person whose presence we would never be able to stand or even worse, it may be a moment wherein people strectch us to an extend wherein we fire them and feel much more stupider than before, whatever it may, there ofcourse is a way out, deal it raw while it is still hot. Sun, 19 Dec 2010 14:46:22 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/10330/eating-the-crow-hothttps://www.boloji.com/articles/9738/be-kind-for-everyone-you-meet-is-fighting-a-hard-battleWed, 20 Oct 2010 20:18:11 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/9738/be-kind-for-everyone-you-meet-is-fighting-a-hard-battlehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/9081/importance-of-timeThey say Life and Death are not in anyone's hands. They are things that just happen every time and with everyone. Same is the case with time. Most of the times we take it for granted that there is always plenty of time. Due to this perhaps we indulge in various activities, which are a wholesale waste of time. Sat, 09 Jul 2011 23:12:16 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/9081/importance-of-timehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/9080/friendship-and-individualityFriendship is a golden thread woven by two friends around themselves to create a different world of their own, all by themselves. They distinguish their world from the rest of the world by their immense love for each other. Friendship can never be one sided, because if it is so, then one of the two is not a friend but a prisoner in the world so created by the other one who calls himself/herself as friend. Such friendships never last longer!Sat, 11 Sep 2010 13:25:36 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/9080/friendship-and-individualityhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/9079/beliefs...Tue, 07 Sep 2010 05:04:09 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/9079/beliefs...https://www.boloji.com/articles/6818/the-willpower-within-usFri, 15 Apr 2011 07:56:01 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/6818/the-willpower-within-ushttps://www.boloji.com/articles/6752/the-turn-styleFri, 06 Aug 2010 21:28:11 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/6752/the-turn-stylehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/6751/mistakesFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:18:22 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/6751/mistakeshttps://www.boloji.com/articles/6750/human-mind-and-the-power-to-willFri, 06 Aug 2010 21:42:20 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/6750/human-mind-and-the-power-to-willhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/6749/communication-skillsFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:09:11 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/6749/communication-skillshttps://www.boloji.com/articles/6679/the-pentagon-pyramidPractice is the pruning knife that rids us of projections in our performance abilities. This applies to practice in all arenas of our activities. Practice empowers us with one important faculty and that is control. It is this control that helps us to always stay in the right track. Like the basket ball player Ed Macauley said, 'When you are not practicing, remember, someone somewhere is practicing, and when you meet him he will win'.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:29:29 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/6679/the-pentagon-pyramidhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3395/who-said-we-have-to-be-perfectFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:12:51 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3395/who-said-we-have-to-be-perfecthttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3393/where-are-we-goingFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:14:08 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3393/where-are-we-goinghttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3390/watch-out-before-you-speakWatch before you speak because the actions of the listener may be louder than your wordsFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:15:13 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3390/watch-out-before-you-speakhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3382/variety-fuels-creativityVariety injects the fluid of creativity in the most barren of minds. To be grooved on to your POA of a successful career life, variety combined with flexibility to fit in changing circumstances is the major mantra of the hour.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:16:13 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3382/variety-fuels-creativityhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3371/triumphs-of-trainingMon, 22 Nov 2010 06:48:48 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/3371/triumphs-of-traininghttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3369/times-are-changing...open-upAs we live each day, many things around us change. Something's change by the hour and some by the minute. Your mind changes its moods and decisions every millisecond or so, sometimes even before you are aware as to what made u take a step, spark a fight or compromise on something. Changes are inevitable, and if they ought to happen, they will.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:21:27 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3369/times-are-changing...open-uphttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3367/think-what-you-areVariety injects the fluid of creativity in the most barren of minds. To be grooved on to your POA of a successful career life, variety combined with flexibility to fit in changing circumstances is the major mantra of the hour.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:22:32 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3367/think-what-you-arehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3364/the-third-eyeFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:23:53 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3364/the-third-eyehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3358/the-power-of-expressionsWhen one expresses one self freely, it's the ultimate satisfaction for the mind. This is because the physical hardware of the human body is faithfully supporting its mental software. The person then is always comfortable anywhere with anyone and at anytime! If one doesn't express properly, it wont make the sun rise in the west, but it will only lead to increased frustrations.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:24:44 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3358/the-power-of-expressionshttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3355/the-natural-leaderTue, 07 Sep 2010 05:25:21 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3355/the-natural-leaderhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3353/ten-rules-from-followers-to-leadersMuch has been written on leadership over the years. Field Marshals and Generals from the leading armies of the world, with successful military careers behind them, have shared their wisdom on what it takes to lead men in war, and in peace. However, there is another silent judge of leadership - those who receive orders from the leaders - the simple soldiers and junior officers - who then execute the tasks assigned.Sun, 16 Sep 2012 18:32:13 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3353/ten-rules-from-followers-to-leadershttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3348/skill-in-action-for-successHow many of us feel that despite all the advances in technology, and the advent of the internet that makes the world seem so much smaller and well connected, we are still working way too hard, and the rewards are just not big enough in proportion to the effort we put inTue, 07 Sep 2010 05:23:01 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3348/skill-in-action-for-successhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3345/self-confidence-is-essential-to-successNothing succeeds like confidence. When you truly and justifiably confident, it radiates from you like sunlight, and attracts success to you like magnet.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:36:50 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3345/self-confidence-is-essential-to-successhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3343/secrets-improving-listening-power-and-body-languageListening is more taxing that reading, writing or any other form of communication. Majority of the times we come across situations, that require our ears to be gathering all the information they can. But just like the blend of good habits and the bad habits, we overlook the importance of listening. We try to contribute to the talker by distracting our mind, which does more harm than good. Tue, 07 Sep 2010 05:22:11 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3343/secrets-improving-listening-power-and-body-languagehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3341/rules-of-credibilityProgressive future and successful life require discipline and character. These things are embedded into the pattern of our lives through proper education and interaction with fellow human beings. A solid foundation of time tested nurtured values attach a character to each and every one of us. Finally, wherever we go we carry our character sub-consciously with us.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:39:56 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3341/rules-of-credibilityhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3338/rise-above-the-ashes-around-youThe greatest high in life is when u fall in love. Love, well u cannot snatch it, lock it or create it. It should come from within you. Being in love is an experience and only if u go through it u will know the intricacies of it. U feel your best when you are in love. Love is a process where your brain has taken a backseat and your heart is working overtimeFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:41:10 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3338/rise-above-the-ashes-around-youhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3333/redefine-your-selfHow do you define yourself? As a mother, daughter, wife, friend, husband, son, teacher, student, lawyer, accountant, or any one of a myriad different titles? Or do you define yourself by others' perception of you? Do any of these come close to your own knowledge, your own personal experience of who you really areThu, 28 Aug 2014 18:43:35 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3333/redefine-your-selfhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3329/power-of-self-talkEach one of us have some good points and some bad ones. Though we hardly admit in public, we know in our mind that we could do better in some areas of our personal landscape. This get better attitude can be converted into a practical reality using self-talk.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:42:58 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3329/power-of-self-talkhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3325/Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:43:38 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3325/https://www.boloji.com/articles/3323/motivate-yourselfMany times, in our life, when we are reviving old memories we get into a phase of nostalgia. We feel that we could have done better than what we had achieved. Be it thinking about that nerve shattering school result, because of which you couldn't get into your favorite stream or that single mark, which could have secured you a merit seat in your engineering college. But thinking back wont rewind the tireless worker called time.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:44:23 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3323/motivate-yourselfhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3319/meditation-a-food-for-mindMeditation is the food for mind. The mind doesn't ask for food when it is hungry, unlike your stomach, which almost roars when kept empty for a long period of time. The mind is like a silent obedient servant, always at the disposal of the master.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:45:10 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3319/meditation-a-food-for-mindhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3314/lonelinessA man is known by the company he keeps they say. If it is so, then everyone is bound to have their baggage of loneliness with them as companions. Loneliness is not something that doesn't exist at all with any human being on earth. Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:45:53 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3314/lonelinesshttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3312/listen-to-your-inner-voiceInner voice is the voice mouth of the sub conscious mind. The sub conscious mind is always acting as a secondary reflector of thoughts and ideas in the body. It justifies and rationalizes what is right and what is wrong. When we go against what the inner voice says we get a guilt conscious and are bothered by it throughout our lives.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:46:40 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3312/listen-to-your-inner-voicehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3311/know-yourselfFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:47:29 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3311/know-yourselfhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3308/kiss-of-realityEach one of us have some good points and some bad ones. Though we hardly admit in public, we know in our mind that we could do better in some areas of our personal landscape. This get better attitude can be converted into a practical reality using self-talk.Mon, 22 Nov 2010 06:42:26 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/3308/kiss-of-realityhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3307/keep-your-coolGetting angry can get your things done somewhere, but not everywhere. This is because as you grow, you yourself are responsible to clean your recycle bin of emotions and frustrations. No one has the foresight or capacity to judge what has bought you to that violent mood or what hardships you have faced. Angry people hardly go places. The closer one comes to this piece of reality, the better he will get.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:49:05 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3307/keep-your-coolhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3305/integrity-definedFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:51:12 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3305/integrity-definedhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3304/integrityFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:49:53 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3304/integrityhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3298/importance-of-being-busyRoutines are the unwritten algorithms, followed by each one of us, everyday in life. Routine is a chain of events, which never changes their order, once it is prioritized. Following the routine is a schedule of events. Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:49:05 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3298/importance-of-being-busyhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3297/imaginationImagination is the audio and visual channel that the creator uses to communicate his dreams to your subconscious. When you are tuned in, you are alive and well.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:48:12 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3297/imaginationhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3294/identification-of-goals-and-planningOnly realistic goals are reachable. Set achievable goals. After goal setting, debug it into small modules, which have to be achieved within certain time frames. Once all modules have been completed, the integration of them all accomplishes the set goal!Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:47:30 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3294/identification-of-goals-and-planninghttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3290/how-to-handle-criticismMost people react badly to all three types of criticism. We tend to take critical remarks as a direct attack on our total worth. People in the arts and professions, if they good at what they do, use constructive criticism to their advantage. But most of us go to great lengths to avoid getting criticized. Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:46:28 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3290/how-to-handle-criticismhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3288/holding-your-head-highFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:45:29 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3288/holding-your-head-highhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3287/good-decision-makers-aresuccessful-peopleDecision making can be hard. Almost any decision involves some conflicts or dissatisfaction. The difficult part is to pick one solution where the positive outcome can outweigh possible losses. Avoiding decisions often seems easier. Yet, making your own decisions and accepting the consequences is the only way to stay in control of your time, your success, and your life. Tue, 07 Sep 2010 05:17:58 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3287/good-decision-makers-aresuccessful-peoplehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3280/feed-your-mindSince the pre-historic times, man has had an urge to satisfy his needs. Be it hunger, shelter or search for a mate, he has always manipulated the circumstances to the best of his advantages. Probably this might be the reason why we human's are the most developed of all living species on the earth, and probably also in the universe.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:43:12 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3280/feed-your-mindhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3277/fearMy suggestions is to face your fear head-on. If you are really determined to achieve your deepest desires and aspirations, a powerful force will enable you to reach them amidst every obstacle that comes in the way. Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:42:22 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3277/fearhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3274/expect-the-unexpectedSometimes in life we have to suddenly face situations, which we can only think of in our wildest nightmares. When we imagine ourselves to be in a difficult situation, we derive more thrills out of it, because we are actually not experiencing it in real life and at the same time we are having a marvelous adventure. The unexpected always gets us more excitement than the expected. Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:41:21 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3274/expect-the-unexpectedhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3270/email-to-godThe figure of merit, which sets us apart from other living beings, is perhaps the variety of emotions we have and our inept ability to express them. Where has one heard that animals share jokes and have a good laugh? Or getting hurt by remarks made by other people? Also be it any form of remark or statement, we humans are verbally able to express our feelings.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:40:20 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3270/email-to-godhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3266/distinctly-i-am-meFri, 06 Aug 2010 07:38:11 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3266/distinctly-i-am-mehttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3263/different-strokes-of-our-dutiesLife teaches us to live. To live, you have to exist. To exist, you should have a passport to this living world. Thanks your parents, who brought you into this world.Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:36:25 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3263/different-strokes-of-our-dutieshttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3259/diary-writing-life--a-magnificent-storyEvery day in Life is like opening a Bank Account and Closing It. As the day comes up, Life opens up a new Bank Account and deposits 1440 minutes in it, as time passes each minute is invested, and lost. It is upto you as to how you transact this minute and make profit/loss of that minute. Once gone, this minute is Gone for ever. At the end of day all the minutes in our Bank Account are emptied and the unused ones are wasted and we start again fresh the next day. Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:35:27 -0500https://www.boloji.com/articles/3259/diary-writing-life--a-magnificent-storyhttps://www.boloji.com/articles/3255/courageMon, 22 Nov 2010 06:29:43 -0600https://www.boloji.com/articles/3255/courage