Oct 30, 2025
Oct 30, 2025
by Arya Bhushan
Steve Jobs delivered his commencement address to Stanford University Graduates. The address was very inspiring and thought provoking. It a glimpse of the Ups and Downs and the troubles, one has to face in life. It is very important for the young people who graduate from a University, become conceited and boastful that there is no one who can equal them and that they have something special which others do not possess. They are not able to grasp that Life is a vast field of action in which a graduate is only a co-sharer and a partner. They are not able to understand that in this arena, every partner has equal rights and responsibilities. The secret of success lies somewhere else. The creator has sent every person into this world with unlimited possibilities. Steve Jobs� life is an excellent example of this point of view. After hearing him one should not feel disappointed on failures but face them with courage, following one�s own inner voice and continue the dictates from there.
STEVE JOBS: Thank you.          I�m honored to be with you today for your commencement from one of the          finest universities in the world. Truth be told, I never graduated from          college and this is the closest I�ve ever gotten to a college          graduation. 
Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That�s it. No big          deal. Just three stories. The first story is about connecting the dots.          I dropped out of Reed College after the first six months but then stayed          around as a drop-in for another eighteen months or so before I really          quit. So why did I drop out? It started before I was born. My biological          mother was a young unwed graduate student, and she decided to put me up          for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college          graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a          lawyer and his wife, except that when I popped out, they decided at the          last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a          waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking, �We�ve got          an unexpected baby boy. Do you want him?� They said, �Of course.� My          biological mother found out later that my mother had never graduated          from college and that my father had never graduated from high school.          She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few          months later when my parents promised that I would go to college. This          was the start in my life. And seventeen years later, I did go to          college, but I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as          Stanford, and all of my working class parents� savings were being spent          on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn�t see the value in it.          I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life, and no idea of how          college was going to help me figure it out, and here I was, spending all          the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop          out and trust that it would all work out okay. It was pretty scary at          that time, but looking back, it was one of the best decisions I ever          made. The minute I dropped out, I could stop taking the required classes          that didn�t interest me and begin dropping in on the ones that looked          far more interesting. 
It wasn�t all romantic. I didn�t have a dorm room so I slept on the          floor in friends� rooms. I returned Coke bottles for the five-cent          deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the seven miles across town          every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hari Krishna          temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my          curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give          you one example. Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best          calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every          poster, every label on every drawer was beautifully hand-calligraphed.          Because I had dropped out and didn�t have to take the normal classes, I          decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned          about serif and sans serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space          between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography          great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that          science can�t capture, and I found it fascinating. None of this had even          a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later when          we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me,          and we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with          beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in          college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or          proportionally spaced fonts, and since Windows just copied the Mac, it�s          likely that no personal computer would have them. 
If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on that          calligraphy class and personal computers might not have the wonderful          typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots          looking forward when I was in college, but it was very, very clear          looking backwards ten years later. Again, you can�t connect the dots          looking forward. You can only connect them looking backwards, so you          have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You          have to trust in something�your gut, destiny, life, karma,          whatever�because believing that the dots will connect down the road will          give you the confidence to follow your heart, even when it leads you off          the well-worn path, and that will make all the difference. 
My second story is about love and loss. I was lucky. I found what I          loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents� garage          when I was twenty. We worked hard, and in ten years, Apple had grown          from just the two of us in a garage into a two billion dollar company          with over four thousand employees. We�d just released our finest          creation, the Macintosh, a year earlier, and I�d just turned thirty, and          then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started?          Well, as Apple grew we hired someone, who I thought was very talented,          to run the company with me, and for the first year or so, things went          well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually          we had a falling out. When we did, our board of directors sided with          him, and so at thirty, I was out, and very publicly out. What had been          the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating. I          really didn�t know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let          the previous generation of entrepreneurs down, that I had dropped the          baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob          Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very          public failure and I even thought about running away from the Valley.          But something slowly began to dawn on me. I still loved what I did. The          turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I�d been rejected          but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over. 
I didn�t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple          was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of          being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner          again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most          creative periods in my life. During the next five years I started a          company named NeXT, another company named Pixar and fell in love with an          amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the          world�s first computer-animated feature film, �Toy Story,� and is now          the most successful animation studio in the world. 
In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT and I returned to          Apple and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple�s          current renaissance, and Lorene and I have a wonderful family together.
I�m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn�t been fired          from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine but I guess the patient needed          it. Sometimes life�s going to hit you in the head with a brick. Don�t          lose faith. I�m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was          that I loved what I did. You�ve got to find what you love, and that is          as true for work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a          large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do          what you believe is great work, and the only way to do great work is to          love what you do. If you haven�t found it yet, keep looking, and don�t          settle. As with all matters of the heart, you�ll know when you find it,          and like any great relationship it just gets better and better as the          years roll on. So keep looking. Don�t settle. 
My third story is about death. When I was seventeen I read a quote that          went something like �If you live each day as if it was your last,          someday you�ll most certainly be right.� It made an impression on me,          and since then, for the past thirty-three years, I have looked in the          mirror every morning and asked myself, �If today were the last day of my          life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?� And whenever the          answer has been �no� for too many days in a row, I know I need to change          something. Remembering that I�ll be dead soon is the most important I�ve          ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life, because almost          everything�all external expectations, all pride, all fear of          embarrassment or failure�these things just fall away in the face of          death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are          going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you          have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to          follow your heart. 
About a year ago, I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at          seven-thirty in the morning and it clearly showed a tumor on my          pancreas. I didn�t even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me          this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I          should expect to live no longer than three-to-six months. My doctor          advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctors�          code for prepare to die. It means to try and tell your kids everything          you thought you�d have the next ten years to tell them, in just a few          months. It means to make sure that everything is buttoned up so that it          will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your          good-byes. 
I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy          where they stuck an endoscope down by throat, through my stomach and          into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells          from the tumor. I was sedated but my wife, who was there, told me that          when they viewed the cells under a microscope, the doctor started          crying, because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic          cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and, thankfully,          I am fine now.
This was the closest I�ve been to facing death, and I hope it�s the          closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now          say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful          but purely intellectual concept. No one wants to die, even people who          want to go to heaven, don�t want to die to get there, and yet, death is          the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as          it should be, because death is very likely the single best invention of          life. It�s life�s change agent, it clear out the old to make way for the          new. Right now, the new is you. But someday not too long from now, you          will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so          dramatic, but it�s quite true. Your time is limited, so don�t waste it          living someone else�s life. Don�t be trapped by dogma which is living          with the results of other people�s thinking. Don�t let the noise of          others� opinions drowned out your own inner voice, and most important,          have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow          already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is          secondary.
When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole          Earth Catalogue, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It          was created by a fellow named Stuart Brand not far from here in Menlo          Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the          last �60s, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was          all made with typewriters, scissors and Polaroid cameras. It was sort of          like Google in paperback form thirty-five years before Google came          along. It was idealistic, overflowing with neat tools and great notions.          Stuart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth          Catalogue, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final          issue. It was the mid-1970s and I was your age. On the back cover of          their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the          kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous.          Beneath it were the words �Stay hungry, stay foolish.� It was their          farewell message as they signed off. �Stay hungry, stay foolish.� And I          have always wished that for myself, and now, as you graduate to begin          anew, I wish that for you. Stay hungry, stay foolish. Thank you all,          very much.  
10-Jul-2005
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