Dec 04, 2023
Dec 04, 2023
by Arya Bhushan
Steve Jobs delivered his commencement address to Stanford University Graduates. The address was very inspiring and thought provoking. It a glimpse of the Ups and Downs and the troubles, one has to face in life. It is very important for the young people who graduate from a University, become conceited and boastful that there is no one who can equal them and that they have something special which others do not possess. They are not able to grasp that Life is a vast field of action in which a graduate is only a co-sharer and a partner. They are not able to understand that in this arena, every partner has equal rights and responsibilities. The secret of success lies somewhere else. The creator has sent every person into this world with unlimited possibilities. Steve Jobsï¿½ life is an excellent example of this point of view. After hearing him one should not feel disappointed on failures but face them with courage, following oneï¿½s own inner voice and continue the dictates from there.
STEVE JOBS: Thank you. Iï¿½m honored to be with you today for your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. Truth be told, I never graduated from college and this is the closest Iï¿½ve ever gotten to a college graduation.
Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. Thatï¿½s it. No big deal. Just three stories. The first story is about connecting the dots. I dropped out of Reed College after the first six months but then stayed around as a drop-in for another eighteen months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out? It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young unwed graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife, except that when I popped out, they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking, ï¿½Weï¿½ve got an unexpected baby boy. Do you want him?ï¿½ They said, ï¿½Of course.ï¿½ My biological mother found out later that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would go to college. This was the start in my life. And seventeen years later, I did go to college, but I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working class parentsï¿½ savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldnï¿½t see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life, and no idea of how college was going to help me figure it out, and here I was, spending all the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out okay. It was pretty scary at that time, but looking back, it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out, I could stop taking the required classes that didnï¿½t interest me and begin dropping in on the ones that looked far more interesting.
It wasnï¿½t all romantic. I didnï¿½t have a dorm room so I slept on the floor in friendsï¿½ rooms. I returned Coke bottles for the five-cent deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the seven miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hari Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example. Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer was beautifully hand-calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didnï¿½t have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and sans serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science canï¿½t capture, and I found it fascinating. None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me, and we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts, and since Windows just copied the Mac, itï¿½s likely that no personal computer would have them.
If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on that calligraphy class and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college, but it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later. Again, you canï¿½t connect the dots looking forward. You can only connect them looking backwards, so you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in somethingï¿½your gut, destiny, life, karma, whateverï¿½because believing that the dots will connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart, even when it leads you off the well-worn path, and that will make all the difference.
My second story is about love and loss. I was lucky. I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parentsï¿½ garage when I was twenty. We worked hard, and in ten years, Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a two billion dollar company with over four thousand employees. Weï¿½d just released our finest creation, the Macintosh, a year earlier, and Iï¿½d just turned thirty, and then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone, who I thought was very talented, to run the company with me, and for the first year or so, things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our board of directors sided with him, and so at thirty, I was out, and very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating. I really didnï¿½t know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down, that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure and I even thought about running away from the Valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me. I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. Iï¿½d been rejected but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.
I didnï¿½t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods in my life. During the next five years I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worldï¿½s first computer-animated feature film, ï¿½Toy Story,ï¿½ and is now the most successful animation studio in the world.
In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT and I returned to Apple and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Appleï¿½s current renaissance, and Lorene and I have a wonderful family together.
Iï¿½m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadnï¿½t been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes lifeï¿½s going to hit you in the head with a brick. Donï¿½t lose faith. Iï¿½m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. Youï¿½ve got to find what you love, and that is as true for work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work, and the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you havenï¿½t found it yet, keep looking, and donï¿½t settle. As with all matters of the heart, youï¿½ll know when you find it, and like any great relationship it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking. Donï¿½t settle.
My third story is about death. When I was seventeen I read a quote that went something like ï¿½If you live each day as if it was your last, someday youï¿½ll most certainly be right.ï¿½ It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past thirty-three years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself, ï¿½If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?ï¿½ And whenever the answer has been ï¿½noï¿½ for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something. Remembering that Iï¿½ll be dead soon is the most important Iï¿½ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life, because almost everythingï¿½all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failureï¿½these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
About a year ago, I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at seven-thirty in the morning and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didnï¿½t even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three-to-six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctorsï¿½ code for prepare to die. It means to try and tell your kids everything you thought youï¿½d have the next ten years to tell them, in just a few months. It means to make sure that everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your good-byes.
I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy where they stuck an endoscope down by throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope, the doctor started crying, because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and, thankfully, I am fine now.
This was the closest Iï¿½ve been to facing death, and I hope itï¿½s the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept. No one wants to die, even people who want to go to heaven, donï¿½t want to die to get there, and yet, death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because death is very likely the single best invention of life. Itï¿½s lifeï¿½s change agent, it clear out the old to make way for the new. Right now, the new is you. But someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but itï¿½s quite true. Your time is limited, so donï¿½t waste it living someone elseï¿½s life. Donï¿½t be trapped by dogma which is living with the results of other peopleï¿½s thinking. Donï¿½t let the noise of othersï¿½ opinions drowned out your own inner voice, and most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalogue, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stuart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the last ï¿½60s, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors and Polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form thirty-five years before Google came along. It was idealistic, overflowing with neat tools and great notions. Stuart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalogue, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words ï¿½Stay hungry, stay foolish.ï¿½ It was their farewell message as they signed off. ï¿½Stay hungry, stay foolish.ï¿½ And I have always wished that for myself, and now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you. Stay hungry, stay foolish. Thank you all, very much.
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