When sexuality dominates one's persona,
when sensuality is the overpowering aspect
of one's personality,
one cannot discern.
One then succumbs
to whims and fancies.
To discern one has to have a benign attitude.
One has to be non-competitive.
One has to be helpful.
A woman has to be thought of
as a mother or a sister,
not an object of gratification.
A man has to be thought of
like a father or brother and son,
showering respect, love and affection.
As long as sexuality drives one's persona,
sensuality is the overpowering aspect of one's personality,
nothing worthwhile is achieved.
If one is creating,
at another end, one is destroying
from relationship to polity.
Nothing is achieved in balance.
From wealth to penury
in all aspects of life
it is just a round trip.