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You Have An Anxious Dog!
V. K. Joshi (Bijji) Bookmark and Share
Remember when you came late from school how anxious your mother used to get! Or, when out on a stag party, your wife would start calling you up from 9PM onwards, ‘when will you be back John?’ Anxiety is a common expression amongst humans. Some people express it more, in the sense that they get too anxious about a person, work or anything related to their lives. While others do not express it and may keep their anxieties to themselves!
Likewise, dogs do have their anxious moments. Only difference is that it takes time to fathom out the reason for their anxiety and longer to cure it and also that their expression of anxiety varies. Many times the expression is so weird that the owner develops anxiety and hypertension.
Imagine a normal, playful dog well past his age of cutting teeth and also partially trained to obey some commands, suddenly digs your imported sofa in your absence and on return you find bits of tapestry and foam all over the place. And your pooch sitting on a pile of foam, ears drawn back; tail wagging and sweeping the bits of foam around. He is keeping an eye on you from the corner of his eye and seeing the anger in your face he is actually bracing up against your reaction.
Similarly, your quiet and placid Labrador retriever one day starts pacing around restlessly, panting, with a worried look on his face. He may not enjoy his meals. He may eat in courses or may go off the food, leaving you worried.
Yet another dog begins to scratch unnecessarily. Despite you and your vet’s examination no trace of any external parasite is found on his body. Vet prescribes a deworming course, yet the scratching spree continues. At times it reaches a stage when dog actually starts bleeding. Some dogs may begin to bite their tails, paws and even their backs-again often mistaken as a sign of external parasites! And still there may be others who may start licking their paw till it turns sore and red and ultimately bleeds.
There could be dogs who begin to tremble for no reason or begin to pant excessively or whine a lot.
The owner is at a loss to make out what is wrong with the dog. In India commonly for any problem whether physical or behavioral, the owners rush to a Vet. One of the reason is that the owners remain ignorant about the type of problem their dog has and the other reason is lack of dog behavior specialists. The Vet with all earnestness makes a diagnosis and starts a treatment. Many times dogs are drowsy after the treatment, because they have been given sedatives to cure their anxiety, which is often mistaken as a symptom of a physical problem like parasites.
All the symptoms described above are usually due to anxiety. Of course before reaching a conclusion one must get the other reasons ruled out with the help of a Vet.
Now try to understand your dog’s behavior. Remember when your mom or wife was anxious about you one of the expressions was pacing in the room or verandah! We have a spoken language and we can express our anxiety or concern in words. But the other animals do not have this facility. Dogs being part and parcel of the house express their anxiety by the symptoms described above.
Once you know that your dog is having an anxious time, the next question comes how to find out the reason and how to cure it. This is one of the most difficult tasks. As a dog owner you should be observant from the day one. Observe your dog’s behavior and reaction to different situations, persons, sounds, smells and also to climatic changes. Like us they too have strong likes and dislikes amongst persons. It is a common fact that if a person (for example a visitor) is not welcome to the owner the dog will also not like him to be around. If the visitor persists then the dog may resent by showing his anxiety symptoms-because the poor creature has been trained not to bark and attack. Given an opportunity to react normally the dog can always show his dislike by attacking the person.
Dogs have a much more powerful hearing and sniffing abilities than us. The rap on the TV or the fragrance of the incense stick may be to our great liking but may be it is hurting your dog! Since he has no other way of expressing he begins to pant excessively. While you or the Vet thinks that the dog may be suffering from a kidney ailment!
Dogs are pack animals and always need the pack around. Their source of entertainment is you or your children. While going to a movie may be our entertainment. When everyone is busy enjoying the movie, the poor lone creature at home is at a loss to think where the pack has vanished! And in his moments of anxiety he begins to dig your sofa. Soon it becomes a game and a good entertainment for him. Poor creature being illiterate didn’t read the price tag!
In reality you never own a dog, he owns you. Therefore try to learn what makes him anxious and try to set right the action. Like you used to tell your friends, ‘okay it’s time for me to go back home, before my mom or dad begins pacing the room!’ And you were off on a bike paddling fast to reach early. Why you did it? Because you knew they loved you and you loved them. Now the situation has reversed-the dog loves you and you have go to return his love by understanding his needs and taking care of his anxieties.
 
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05/09/2012
More by :  V. K. Joshi (Bijji)
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Thanks Sushil I am glad that you found the article interesting.
V.K. Joshi
03/11/2013
interesting ! really its difficult sometime to solve !
Sushil
03/01/2013
 You are absolutely right Mr Sidhu. Dogs are to me nearest to Gods. They are sensitive and display same psyche often as our children. But they need a careful and dedicated handling to make them useful family members.
Thanks for your comments.
Dogdom
06/10/2012
Thanks for a lovely article. I have 2 dogs and the reason I got 2 instead of one is coz of the same challenge. Now both my boyz (GSD-Mojo and Lab-Rocco) believe that they are brothers and play with each other. I read somewhere that when GOD created this creature he named it DOG as it was his presence around a man in form of this creature.
Ramandeep Sidhu
06/07/2012
 Thanks for your comment Gaurav. Very few persons really try to understand what a dog is. For most it is just a toy, a four legged creature, a cur or a multipurpose animal. My heart cries out when some one beats his dog with a stick or bashes him. 
Those who try to understand the dog and even if they understand a little bit a strong bond is developed and thyen the dog starts owning the master. That is the peak of it and the bond continues till the dog lives. Memories do linger.
Dogdom
05/24/2012
dogs are the most beautiful creature made by the god...... you r rite the person never own a dog but the dog owns a person.......... if he take care of us then it is our duty and resposibility to do the same to him.......
gaurav sharma
05/13/2012
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